Sooner or later along your kung fu training you will come across opponents that are less experienced than you –where you may choose to show off and boost your ego to see how great you are. However no doubt (especially in the beginning) you will come across opponents that are much more experienced. And in some cases a lot better.. Hopefully you will come across these individuals in classes rather than the real word, But the same principles should apply, regardless of your kung fu style. First up do not be intimidated by your foes –respect them for their abilities and don’t take anything for granted. I would strongly advise that you fight more experienced opponents during sparring sessions in classes. This way you have a controlled environment where you wont get too seriously hurt.
This is one of the most valuable experiences you will ever undergo in your kung fu training. A valuable lesson. You will be able to determine where you are weak and what your strengths are., what works and what doesn’t AS STATED DON’T BE INTIMIDATED. If you are too freaked out that you cannot move fluently you have already lost. The key is to focus on your opponent and your training. Identify your tactics and remember what you have learned. Do not deviate from your training. It is a dynamic situation. So stick to your plan. Stay with the basics within the framework of your system. Sometimes ego takes over and we try something new or fear takes over and we panic with random strikes. Focus on your opponent as an obstacle to overcome—take emotion out of and back your self. After all they also have two arms two legs and only advantage they have is just a bit more experience. They have been in the exact same position when you started. It doesn’t make them invincible or unbeatable.
Sparring against a skilled opponent is the best way to fast track your progress. During these sessions you will learn more about yourself more than anything. Your confidence will grow. You may not be able to beat all comers all the time but at the very least you can hold your own. And remember you can always improve and more can be learnt from a stronger opponent than one that you can dominate.

